Sunday, June 13, 2010

Disneyland Vacation

Ben and I took our first vacation together as a couple. To me, the honeymoon didn't count as a vacation. We were expected to do some sort of traveling immediately following the wedding in order to get away and celebrate our first few days of marriage. But even after being married for three months (today!), it's easy to forget that we're "allowed" to do things now that we couldn't before. As we packed up the car on Friday, it was like, "Oh yeah, we're married. It's okay for us to go to California by ourselves!" Ergo, our first vacation.

The ride Star Tours at Disneyland is closing on July 27. This news upset me, since our next Disneyland trip wasn't scheduled until November (with the Moores!). However, we each had a free one-day pass to any Disney park for volunteering earlier this year, and decided to use them this weekend.

Ben accompanied my family to Disneyland last year, so it was fun to go again - just the two of us. We rode Star Tours one last time, which was a bittersweet experience for me. You have to understand that a large portion of my childhood was spent at Disneyland. I LOVE Disneyland, and grew up riding Star Tours, with the predictable script and sequence of events. At least I didn't cry or anything dramatic. Actually, I was grinning like a fool the entire ride. I just love going on those rides that have been there ever since I can remember.

The park was not busy at all, which was really unexpected. It was a Saturday in June; of course it was going to be busy. However, I started getting suspicious when the line for the Finding Nemo ride was only ten minutes long. Ten minutes??? It's usually at least 45 minutes long by the time the park has been open for ten minutes! The longest we waited for anything was 40 minutes for Toy Story Mania in California Adventure, which a) doesn't have a FastPass line, and b) is completely worth the wait. Second to that was Soarin' Over California (20 minutes), which is also worth waiting for.

Speaking of Soarin' Over California, we have the best story to tell. On that ride, each "vehicle" (if you can even call it that) has three rows that each hold ten people. Ben and I got stuck in front of a large group of loud junior high aged kids. Eventually, you get put in line according to what section you will be sitting in. We were the first two to get seated in Row 1, with all the annoying kids right next to us - yay. The other two rows were queued behind us... all twenty of them were Asian and barely spoke a hint of English. As we waited in our strange group of thirty, we watched a short video that discussed safety precautions regarding the ride. It also showed what the ride vehicles look like. As soon as they showed the first image, all of the Asians gasped and said "Woah!" Apparently they had no idea what they were getting into until that moment.

The girls in the junior high group were really anxious to get on the ride, and I anticipated that they would try to cut in front of us, which would put me and Ben in the middle of the group. Sure enough, we start walking in and one of the girls runs in front of me and Ben. I put my hand out and told her to hang on and let me and Ben sit on the end so they can all sit together. Ben told me later that I used my "d-group voice" to redirect her. It's good to know that my d-group experience is good for something.

Soarin' Over California is a simulation of hang-gliding over various areas of California. You're suspended over a concaved screen and it feels like you're "soaring over California"! The scenes change to show Napa Valley, the mountains, the ocean, etc. Every time the screen changed, everyone - EVERYONE - either gasped or clapped or cheered or something that involved excited noises. There are three "vehicles" riding over the screen at once - a total of 90 people. The entire theater was making noise the entire ride. Ben and I just laughed. It was hysterical.

Anyway... now we're home, and I have a blister. But we had a great time.

Friday, March 19, 2010

A good taste of married life

Today was a good day - a good taste of married life (minus working and school, which will be returning far sooner than I want them to). Ben and I met our good friends Zach and Caitlin at Olive Garden for lunch, and treated them with the gift cards we were given (thanks Melissa!). We also went grocery shopping and picked up a wireless router so my laptop can connect to the internet. Ben got that all set up when we got home, and I continued to put things away. Our home is slowly becoming less and less cluttered, although I know we'll start the whole process over again this weekend after we open the rest of our wedding gifts.

I cooked a new recipe tonight, for the first time in our kitchen - chicken tostadas. I was nervous at first, because I wanted everything to be perfect. It took me a while, but it ended up being good, and Ben agreed. I told him not to be the husband who lies and says every meal I cook is fantastic; I'd hate to find out that he hates a certain food after being married for twenty years or something.

We still have to get my car washed... All of the typical "just married" stuff is still all over my windows.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Husband and wife

Well, I don't even know where to start. I'm amazed that the wedding is finally over, that Ben and I are finally husband and wife. Here we are now, in our little apartment that has been taken over by gift bags and boxes full of the generous gifts people have given us. And we haven't even opened all of the gifts! Half of them are still at my parents', where we will open them after they've returned from California.

The wedding was beautiful, and everyone I talked to seemed to agree. Judging by the comments of countless friends and family members, I really do think that the Holy Spirit was fully present at our wedding. The weather was perfect, the flowers were beautiful, the cake was delicious, everything ran on time, and Ben and I were clearly loved by everyone there. I cried quite a bit, and I think Ben cried even more, especially when he saw me for the first time at 11 am, at our special bridal presentation. It was just the two of us in the worship center, with J.J. Heller's "Tonight" setting the mood. Ben saw me for the first time that day, in my dress, and he about lost it. I married a man with an admirably tender heart.

Ben's brother, Dan, performed the ceremony, and it couldn't have been more perfect. So many people came up to Ben and me at the reception and said what a great job he did - what a great testimony he shared, and how God-honoring his words were. I'm proud to have him as a brother-in-law, and having him officiate our ceremony was totally special.

On Sunday, Ben and I set off to Pine, where we stayed in a friend's cabin. It was beautiful - the perfect place to spend the first few days of our marriage. Hopefully I'll be able to post pictures soon.

Please pray that Ben and I will be productive the next few days. We have a lot to do, between putting me on the apartment lease, putting away our gifts, and getting me generally settled in. It will be a good time though :)

Saturday, March 6, 2010

I could not be more ready

I'm sorry that neither of us have updated for so long. Obviously life has been very, very busy for us. The wedding is one week from today, and I could not be more ready for it to finally be here. I cannot explain how much I am looking forward to having no obligations for those several days following the wedding - no phone calls to answer, emails to reply to, decisions to make, or homework to do. It will just be me and my husband :)

Please pray that this week will go by quickly and smoothly. Pray that I will not get stressed out and be able to accomplish all the tasks that still need to be taken care of (including the two midterms I have on Monday). Pray for patience for both of us.